• Awoos the KinkwolfM
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    38 months ago

    Recently got a Lovense Max; a stroker that includes a bluetooth controlled vibe. As a Linux user who has a knack for having things not work, surprised how well it connects to stuff.

    Annoyingly, after getting it, I had an (unrelated) mental health issue, which gave me quite bad anxiety whenever I wanted to do anything lewd, which kinda killed the mood… Blegh.

    I also seem to get desensitised to vibes after a while, especially if they are at a constant speed. It’s also a bit of a hassle to keep in place.

    If I were buying it again… Honestly tempted to get an inertable vibe over a stroker. Seems much less hassle and easier to just passively have turning on and off in the background (could even use it as an alarm). Although I’m not sure how much I’m into butt stuff, tbh.

    • @l_b_iOP
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      38 months ago

      After your first phrase of your second sentence, I was waiting for you enjoying tinkering to get it working. Keeping automatic strokers on without hands seems to be a universal challenge. I think the nimble stoker tries to solve it, but its rather expensive.

      You never know until you try. If you want to try prostate play, I’d recommend a hook with a ball. Its easy to insert an control where the pressure is. I’ve tried some of the hands free prostate toys, but never had one that worked for me.

      • Awoos the KinkwolfM
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        38 months ago

        What I found works for me is to just wrap a belt around my belly to secure it; a very low tech solution. :P Sadly doesn’t really work with the stroking part of it, but I don’t think that feels that great either.

        For whatever reason those hook toys kinda look scary to me.

        • @l_b_iOP
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          28 months ago

          If it works, it works.

          From a size perspective, the ball is no bigger, and probably slightly smaller than a “normal size” plug. The rest is so thin there is no discomfort keeping it in.