I’ve tried a few cheaper items myself. My personal worry is spending all that money and it being sized wrong, or just not liking it in reality. Also, I might have a sensitivity to latex, and it pulls on hair. As an adult, I’ve always wanted to experience someone else tying me up. When I was little my brother and a friend would tie me up, because that’s what kids do sometimes.
Hopefully you find that someone that sees you has hot as you want them to.
Here is the list of communities that everyone can see. Wander said they would change settings so the community list would be visible when the instance goes read only