I want to understand it but everything I read about it oscillates impossibly between vulgar metals -> gold and some kind of spiritual transformation metaphysical stuff
What is it and what can be legit gleaned from it in an empirical or useful sense?
Does it have utility outside of use as a metaphor or allegory or whatever?
Nooooo, that’s not what an atom is. Compounds (substances made of atoms from more than one element), can be magnetic. Like rare-earth magnets are made of rare-earth elements.
Neodymium magnets are made of an alloy of the following elements: neodymium, iron, and boron.
Samarium-cobalt magnets are made from, you guessed it, the elements samarium, cobalt.
I think you should revisit some chemistry resources. You’re missing some fundamental concepts.
Hearing of everything now, I doubt I’d understand any of them if they take the same approach.