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When dating, "Just be confident" is just bad advice if you ask me.

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When dating, "Just be confident" is just bad advice if you ask me.

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Casual Conversation @lemm.eeEnglish • 10 months ago

“Being confident” is dangerously close to straight up bothering people. Plus it only really works if you’re good looking.

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Being confident doesn’t also mean being an ass.

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