I’m curious… and slightly horny, I admit it.

Marking this NSFW in case anyone wants to get into more detail about being top / bottom / vers or sub / dom.

I’m pretty gay / male oriented myself. I do like to post good straight yiff I find, but males turn me on much more. I’d also say I’m a switch, depending on the situation, very interested in stuff like petplay, Dom/sub situations.

Anyways 0////0 HBU? Just asking for scientific statistical purposes, of course.

(I might regret posting this hehe. Admin is being horny on main… )

  • @Jimbo
    3•1 year ago

    Welcome!

    So… how do you find being straight?

    No really, this experience is alien to me hah

    • bane_killgrind
      3•1 year ago

      I don’t really think about it, but I hear from people that cocks look weird, so I suppose you should imagine the difference is seeing something weird you like and have the impulse to touch, vs seeing something weird that you don’t really care about and don’t have the impulse to touch.

      In terms of social interactions there is a position of privilege I’m in. I have experienced gay coworkers and acquaintances being mistreated. It’s annoying getting along well with someone and they bust out some hot take that shows they are hateful. So I’m not subject to that treatment, and that’s what I mean by privilege. I’ve put stuff in my ass and posted a video on fetlife, so if the conversation topic is bdsm and such I do censor myself depending on the audience.

      My wife is great. We just moved into this housing coop and I’ve been working on little improvements. She’s short so I ordered some low cabinets and countertop so she doesn’t struggle to cook stuff, and seeing how happy it made her is very satisfying. She’s super supportive of my hobbies, has a great sense of humor, and is very loving. I got her into Startrek and she really likes it all.

      • @Jimbo
        2•1 year ago

        I’m fortunate enough that I’m in New Zealand, being gay (being in a gay relationship) isn’t too much of an issue here, though I can’t say the same for trans, unfortunately for my partner. It’s a real pain with asexuality having basically no one understand, but experiences can differ a lot in that so… just kinda gotta figure it out for yourself.

        On one hand I’ve felt like an outcast much of the time, but on the other hand I like being weird lol, I like what I like, I would never trade for being a “normie” or something.