Now that a lot of the commotion has subsided I’m just curious to know how y’all are finding the Lemmy experience in general and whether you use it regularly like you did reddit?

    • @[email protected]
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      811 months ago

      The problem with tiny instances is reliability and trust.

      If you lose the motivation to run it tomorrow it’s gone. If you run out of money? Gone. If you’re the only admin and you die? Gone.

      In addition to that you can read everything I do on your instance. Like all my “private” messages.

      If an instance admin is scummy they could even modify the Lemmy code running and save away all passwords and emails in plaintext. Not an issue for me as I use a custom email and random passwords for every service, but it can fuck over random people.

      So professional bigger instances do have their benefits too.

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        211 months ago

        How do you create a custom email for everything? That seems hard to me

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          511 months ago

          I own a domain, for example xyz.com, which means I can create whatever email I want, like [email protected].

          The mail server I set up forwards all emails to one inbox. Which means I still get an email if you send it to [email protected] or [email protected] and so on, you get the idea.

          So when I sign up for an account I don’t use a general email (except for banking stuff, taxes, etc.). If I sign up for Facebook (good riddance) I’d use [email protected]. That way I also know when I suddenly get a lot of spam who lost my email or sold it off :)

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            11 months ago

            had a bank spend an hour making phone calls before letting me use [email protected] one time, they ended up letting me use it in the end but acted like i was hacking the entire bank it was really amusing.

            This scheme has been invaluable for spending decades on the internet. When a company sells your email off you instantly know who sold it and blocking that address on your end fixes the issue immediately.

            Anyone who wants to try a lightweight version of this google supports +tokens in the name portion of your email address. So if you are [email protected] and you sign up at nike.com enter the address as [email protected] (if their system lets you, many do not). then if you get spam at [email protected] that isn’t from nike you know it was them who sold your address.

            makes filtering easier too like if you fish sign up as steve+fishing at all your fishing sites and you can catch them all with one fiter and don’t have to add each domain individually to have them labeled properly.

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            111 months ago

            Oh nice. I wasn’t thinking along the lines of self hosted email. Thanks for the insight.

            Maybe I’ll try to set up something similar in the future.

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              311 months ago

              In my case it’s self-hosted, but maybe there are email providers where you can use your own domain that enable the same feature (it’s called wildcard usually).

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        111 months ago

        dude, all I ask for at registration time is a nickname and a captcha… reddit, twitter, fb and google all read your shit and train ai models and make billions of dollars every month

        I’m sure your shitposts are top secret but idk, what’s your threat model?