One thing I’ve always wanted to do is grow my hair out down to my neck. I’m also aware that for people with thick hair, it requires a lot of patience. I personally have incredibly thick hair and many hair stylists have mentioned this to me.

The problem is, after about 6 months my hair will enter this “middle ground” stage where it looks incredibly poofy and hard to manage. Like, instead of growing DOWN, it just seems to try to grow up. At the same time, my hair growth also slows down. This creates insecurity and makes me just cut it off. I don’t want to do that anymore.

I know it’s possible for people to grow long hair. Even with thick hair. Is there anything I can do to promote downward hair growth, or anything I can do to manage it during this awkward phase? I’m not there yet, but I suspect I will be in another month or two. Thanks!

  • Yolk
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    41 year ago

    I spent the younger half of my life with very long, thick hair (I keep it short now). There’s no avoiding that awkward phase, you just have to stick it out. Keep your scalp stimulated, make sure your hair isn’t dry or splitting, and other than that you can try tight braids? Wish this was more helpful ^^; liking your appearance is important - but your appearance is subjective. I know it’s easier said than done, but don’t worry so much about your hair looking awkward. I’ve gone bald before and then had to prompt people into noticing so