From the “This is only news to neurotypicals” department

  • @[email protected]
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    438 hours ago

    that’s the only way I ever submitted anything in college lmao

    wait what do you mean I’m now suffering from permanent burnout and near adrenal exhaustion and inability to execute on any of my hobbies anymore? No that clearly just means I need more caffeine and to work harder because I’m lazy

  • moosetwin
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    6 hours ago

    meanwhile I’m over here breaking down over the possibility that what I say might be misinterpeted as meaning something assholey

    edit: and when I get stressed about something that is actually actionable I just get demotivated

  • ComradeSharkfucker
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    279 hours ago

    Its crazy too becauae I am almost never stressed until SUDDENLY I AM, GOD FUCK I AM SO STRESSED WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED HOW DID I LET THIS GO UNNOTICED FUCK

  • @[email protected]
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    67 hours ago

    Yes, but maybe the ability to feel stress helps you to avoid it?

    So maybe those with ADHD can do more in stressful moments… and then die sooner.

  • @[email protected]
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    57 hours ago

    Super interesting. I’ve actually found i thrive best with 3-4 simultaneous contract jobs instead of just one, because I otherwise have too much time to wander or get distracted, versus just staying heads down and working.

    Thought it was just me, but seems like it isn’t, which is nice.

  • Björn Tantau
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    4512 hours ago

    Don’t worry, keep up the stress and ADHD will break like a neurotypical.

    • @[email protected]
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      4012 hours ago

      Yup. I rode deadline panick all the way through to a degree and now it feels like adrenaline just doesn’t work right anymore.

    • @[email protected]
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      1410 hours ago

      I’m pretty sure my baseline cortisol levels could kill a small animal. And probably shortened my lifespan by a few years.

      My AuDHD is flavored by several varieties of anxiety and crippling depression, the former undiagnosed for most of my life and the latter two only being treated sporadically. I’ve had my episodes of shining in times of chaos (usually at work) but my brain’s go-to response is freeze.

      It’s not very effective.

  • @[email protected]
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    3011 hours ago

    This worked until I developed GAD. Now it’s hard to get motivated and hard to wind down, lol.

  • Granbo's Holy Hotrod
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    3612 hours ago

    I work in incident management. I feel comfortable when everything is on fire. Look around like it’s surreal that everyone is so panicked.

    • @[email protected]
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      23 hours ago

      I wonder if that’s why we’re here? We’re the people that act first when the animals attack the village…

      Don’t be fooled, though. It adds up.

      • FiveMacs
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        99 hours ago

        Same reason they ask introverts why they are so quiet.

        • @[email protected]
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          34 hours ago

          I’ve always been surprised by people who panic and scream or run around. I don’t get it.

  • @[email protected]
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    I feel like my adhd is the reason for my extreme stress? I’m inattentive as fuck, which is very fucking stupid because the ptsd symptom I can’t turn off is hyperawareness. I’m always noticing everything, but trying to keep track of it long enough to put into context is a struggle. Life those two symptoms are at odds and making each other worse?

    Even trying to explain it like this feels stupid.

  • @[email protected]
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    2611 hours ago

    Isn’t that the medical basis for why we take the stress medicine? Like, isn’t this one of the very few things we actually know about ADHD?

  • ThyTTY
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    3012 hours ago

    That’s me. Once you remove the pressure I’m a mess

  • fracture [he/him]
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    2411 hours ago

    More than half of adults with ADHD also experience anxiety. But, Sibley’s study shows this might not always be a bad thing. skip past newsletter promotion

    this article feels… really gross. like wow, ADHD people thrive under stress! i wonder how they ended up like that

    it also doesn’t seem to have any regard for the wellbeing of the people in the study, just their productivity, although it could just be being presented poorly by the article

    just shitty overall

    • FiveMacs
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      39 hours ago

      Study’s don’t have to study every aspect…they can focus on just one…like someone with ADHD and how they handle productivity during stress.

      Personally, I wouldn’t want wellbeing in the way when reading about ADHD peoples stress and productivity. Stick to the point and don’t add feelings garbage into it.

      • fracture [he/him]
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        48 hours ago

        would it be that it were so simple, but for that “feelings garbage” to be the cause of ADHD to begin with…