• originalucifer
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    211 day ago

    i just cant imagine giving a shit about this. like how insecure do you have to be after 16 years to care??

            • @[email protected]
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              131 day ago

              It’s not that it matters, but I would feel bad that my partner didn’t feel comfortable enough to share that part of them after so long.

              • originalucifer
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                91 day ago

                i could see that. its really not about the sex or preference, its about trust in information. that is something every relationship must contend with making this rather pedestrian

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              61 day ago

              I get the feeling you think I’m saying this because of insecurities or something. I just think it’s important to know what your partner likes and doesn’t like. I’d feel pretty alone if I was with someone I couldn’t express my desires to even if they can’t fulfill them and wouldn’t want my partner to feel that way.